Nora
Doherty
Director of PMR and Mediation Consultant
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Workplace
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Magazine
Articles on Workplace Mediation
written by Nora Doherty, Director of PMR Ltd |
'Bullying
or Harassment Complaints - is Mediation the answer?''
published in ACW ‘Counselling at Work’
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'Mediation
in the Workplace'
published in ‘Modern Management’ a comprehensive
article about what workplace mediation is and how it can be used
within organisations
Mediation in the Workplace is presently one
of the fastest growing areas of innovative management in the U.K.
It is of great interest to managers, team leaders and supervisors
in the public and private sectors who are concerned with achieving
effective working relationships, high quality management of people
and the minimisation of the negative disruption which workplace
conflict can often bring.
Mediation,
while well known in other sectors, has been brought into the
world of organisations and the workplace only very recently.
Managers at all levels are
very
interested therin, because it offers exciting and constructive
advantages over the win/lose adversarial dispute methods we have
been accustomed to. While formal procedures are necessary, they
can be very long and drawn out, highly costly in terms of money,
disruption and negative emotions and often end up with even worse
working relationships than before.
Mediation
offers a way of resolving interpersonal conflicts, misunderstandings
and poor communication in a way that encourages clearer communication,
good working relationships and an emphasis on solutions. Mediation
is voluntary which means all the parties involved must agree to
the mediation and be willing to look for a resolution.
Mediation
can be used for:
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Conflicts
between individuals, managers and teams, or departments. |
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As
a first stage, confidential measure as part of such Personnel
policies as Grievance, Harassment, Equal opportunities or Anti-bullying
strategies. |
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Customer
complaints |
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As
a general management tool to deal with everyday conflicts. |
What
exactly is mediation?
Mediation
is a dispute resolution method whereby 'an impartial person (the
mediator) facilitates communication between those in dispute, in
order to enable them to come up with mutually agreed solutions.'
It is a highly structured process so that both parties have a chance
to speak without interruption, and to talk about how they would
like to improve things in the future. The disputants themselves
come up with, and agree upon voluntary solutions which are written
up at the end of the mediation process. A follow-up meeting can
then be arranged some time in the future in order to see how the
agreements are working. It is the structure of Mediation and the
Mediator's skill which make the difference. Mediation gives a safe,
confidential space for people to say what they need to say, to have
their feelings heard and to think of agreements which can be made
in order to improve the working relationship or to change unacceptable
behaviours.
Face
to Face Mediation
After
the Mediator has had individual meetings with each person, six basic
steps apply:
i |
Ground
Rules. |
ii |
Hearing
the Story. |
iii |
Identifying
the Real Issues. |
iv |
Communicating
Feelings. |
v |
Identifying Solutions. |
vi |
Writing
the Agreements. |
Mediation
Skills for Managers
Have
you ever been in a conflict situation and wished you had more skills
at your finger tips to help you deal with the situation more expertly?
Most people find conflict situations very difficult to handle. Feelings
can be very strong and reactive, and the ripples of a workplace
conflict can begin to seriously affect all those around as well
as the quality of work. It is probably true to say that very few
people have actually undergone training in conflict management skills
even though this is probably one of the main skills which managers
need in their everyday working lives. Mediation is a particular
set of skills which are part of a whole range of dispute resolution
methods.
In
mediation there are two levels of skills for managers:
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The
every day management skill of dealing with people who become
aggressive or angry, handling complaints between colleagues
or managers such as personality differences, different management
styles, miscommunication, or handling differences of needs or
demands for resources. |
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The
conflict management skill of handling grievance or harassment
complaints, including racial or sexual harassment in the workplace.
If the conflict is mutual and less serious, then mediation can
be offered as a first step towards resolution. The mediation
skills of of a manager at this point can be very helpful. They
can help resolve matters as they first arise and before they
escalate. Mediation can also be used to facilitate the return
to working relations after a disciplinary or grievance incident
has taken place. More serious and complex cases can be dealt
with either by personnel staff trained in mediation, or by an
external, experienced workplace mediation consultant. |
The
Benefits of Mediation
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It
saves time. |
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It
is solution focused. |
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It
is less costly (in all senses of the word i.e. money, emotional
stress, sickness and absenteeism, the loss of experienced staff,
negative staff morale and poor decision making). |
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It
helps maintain working relationships. |
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It
is a more creative way of handling differences. |
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It
improves communication. |
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It
enhances co-operation between teams or departments. |
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It
encourages a non-blame, more positive working environment. |
Amidst
the complexities of modern day management, there needs to be more
effective and more flexible ways of handling the variety of workplace
conflicts and differences which are bound to arise. Mediation does
offer a positive way forward in this field as well as empowering
people to find solutions which work for them.
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